You are what you are, no more, no less. The fact is, that all is not what it seems to be, some may be great, some may be small, but to your own want to be free, I say, you never were not free. It is what your own Self, gave yourself to be in, that's what makes you what you are. Loving kindness be upon you and yours.
Oh dear oh dear, whats this nonsense, seriousely, does the thread title say, lets have common sense interactions, no, does is say give really good advice, no, does it say help friends, no, it says this is the pi ss ed and annoyed thread, come on in and get it off your chbreast, more head banging continues, dear of dear.