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    The Apology Thread

    Hey All Totters

    i thought seeing im so experienced in the field id like to open an apology thread , to go a little way towards reconciliation.

    Id like to kick off by apologising to members for my recent reactive outbursts, there were more than i can remember so i wont name them , but you knwo who you are.

    Please accept my humble and un reserved ( or provoked ) apologies.

    Love and Hugsies !


    Naniu

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    yea, you smart ass, I love you too. Your bad attitude has always felt like a temporary superficial glitch due to some kind of identity establishment/crisis issue I was more than willing to sit out until it stabilized

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    I wish to put my apology into the mix, I have some good friends here but there are those for whatever reason I havent connected with. Life is too short and if there's any offense although Im unaware of it, I wish to say sorry and would hope that you would forgive and we can at least be friendly...

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    No Wukkers Nanu (as an Ozzy I'm sure you understand this word, the rest won't....lol)

    Actually in one of the threads, where I suggested you go sit in the garden, you replied 'F off'. I thought it was hilarious. I thought, old Nanu's got himself into a right, royal stew.

    Welcome back mate, all is forgiven, come here you possum.

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    Quote Originally posted by norman View Post
    yea, you smart ass, I love you too. Your bad attitude has always felt like a temporary superficial glitch due to some kind of identity establishment/crisis issue I was more than willing to sit out until it stabilized
    Uncannily accurate : 0) " looks like we got our selves a reader ! " lol

    thanks Normie !

    N

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    Quote Originally posted by Sooz View Post
    No Wukkers Nanu (as an Ozzy I'm sure you understand this word, the rest won't....lol)

    Actually in one of the threads, where I suggested you go sit in the garden, you replied 'F off'. I thought it was hilarious. I thought, old Nanu's got himself into a right, royal stew.

    Welcome back mate, all is forgiven, come here you possum.
    lol actually is was P Off .. i thought you would get the reference ... its my little sooz joke now

    hugs back cobba !

    N,

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    Our cousy place gets better and better as we all grow and learn not just to respect each other but to apology for our temper. As norman said I too see some of your comments Naniu as a glitch in the system :-). I also see a great beutiful soul behind the temper. Its nice to have you back here. Im sure most of us already know there is no ill intent just misplaced few sentences.

    p.s I havent thanked to any posts because Im on my tablet and dont have the thank button. :-)

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    Thank you Altaria ,

    I have never been good at hiding my emotions, especially about subjects that create unnescessary negative emotional responces that target women. I dont want to go into great detail but stories of rape and sexual abuse i find hard to read and especially when i find it is being carelessly presented and in a manner that is provoking a responce.

    i spent 5 years of my life dedicated to teaching women and children to defend them selves aginst predators. Needless to say i have invested many emotions around this and have had to be confidant to women and children who felt they had nobody to talk to about their negative experiences. I even had several partners admit to me they were abused.. and the emotions this enlisted in me was unfathomable. SO when i see careless depictions of these scenarios that are un neccesary and repeated almost as if it were some sort of programming .. I get a little upset and protective.

    So in short i have learned to be more tactful and i feel very sorry for those who do these things on purpose for some agenda, if thats what it is .. i will pray for your souls.


    Its important to note that when one is sorry for what they have done they tell you why it happened so that a greater understanding is resilved. I dont want to come ocross as a reactionary however when i know something , i know.. i just need to learn how to better effect the knowing into information thats useful. I also have to say that english is my third language , not my second and its diffcult to express or articulate what i want to say.

    I thank you all for being forgiving , i note who has engaged in this thread have great strength of charachter as it takes a big person to say sorry and an even bigger one to forgive.

    Love and Hugs

    Naniu


    Quote Originally posted by Altaira View Post
    Our cousy place gets better and better as we all grow and learn not just to respect each other but to apology for our temper. As norman said I too see some of your comments Naniu as a glitch in the system :-). I also see a great beutiful soul behind the temper. Its nice to have you back here. Im sure most of us already know there is no ill intent just misplaced few sentences.

    p.s I havent thanked to any posts because Im on my tablet and dont have the thank button. :-)

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    Quote Originally posted by NANUXII View Post
    Thank you Altaria ,

    I have never been good at hiding my emotions, especially about subjects that create unnescessary negative emotional responces that target women. I dont want to go into great detail but stories of rape and sexual abuse i find hard to read and especially when i find it is being carelessly presented and in a manner that is provoking a responce.

    i spent 5 years of my life dedicated to teaching women and children to defend them selves aginst predators. Needless to say i have invested many emotions around this and have had to be confidant to women and children who felt they had nobody to talk to about their negative experiences. I even had several partners admit to me they were abused.. and the emotions this enlisted in me was unfathomable. SO when i see careless depictions of these scenarios that are un neccesary and repeated almost as if it were some sort of programming .. I get a little upset and protective.

    So in short i have learned to be more tactful and i feel very sorry for those who do these things on purpose for some agenda, if thats what it is .. i will pray for your souls.


    Its important to note that when one is sorry for what they have done they tell you why it happened so that a greater understanding is resilved. I dont want to come ocross as a reactionary however when i know something , i know.. i just need to learn how to better effect the knowing into information thats useful. I also have to say that english is my third language , not my second and its diffcult to express or articulate what i want to say.

    I thank you all for being forgiving , i note who has engaged in this thread have great strength of charachter as it takes a big person to say sorry and an even bigger one to forgive.

    Love and
    Naniu
    Have you been on that extra special lube oil again Naniu , nice to see you back , again
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    I love your humility and humour Nanu and I apologize for the lack in mine.

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    Quote Originally posted by sandy View Post
    I love your humility and humour Nanu and I apologize for the lack in mine.
    I have never seen you be anything less than adorable : ) hugs

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    Quote Originally posted by norman View Post
    yea, you smart ass, I love you too. Your bad attitude has always felt like a temporary superficial glitch due to some kind of identity establishment/crisis issue I was more than willing to sit out until it stabilized
    this is the comment scource " looks like we got our selves a reader " this is my weird way of complementing ...


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