Guys are intimidated by women, not in a physical sense so much, but they tend to look to themselves and worry that they don't measure up ... (not where it counts, of course) but in terms of social status. Women seek 'resources', and if men don't have all they feel that they need, they will be intimidated ... it is a biological instinct. I've read that the most 'comfortable' men are the married ones which are why women fall for them ... it's a weird dynamic and I'm not sure why things work that way. Some have suggested it is about confidence...i.e. strength, competence, control which in turn 'projects' fitness. But then perhaps that is why many marriages end in failure, projection isn't of necessity reality.
What is incel?