Cancel Culture

[NotAPretender]

Guys are intimidated by women, not in a physical sense so much, but they tend to look to themselves and worry that they don't measure up ... (not where it counts, of course) but in terms of social status. Women seek 'resources', and if men don't have all they feel that they need, they will be intimidated ... it is a biological instinct. I've read that the most 'comfortable' men are the married ones which are why women fall for them ... it's a weird dynamic and I'm not sure why things work that way. Some have suggested it is about confidence...i.e. strength, competence, control which in turn 'projects' fitness. But then perhaps that is why many marriages end in failure, projection isn't of necessity reality.

What is incel?

[Malisa]

A number of years ago, some were speculating that if the gender wars continued at some point the human species would be unable to breed. In full honesty, I don't get along with 'strong' women that are not willing to compromise. I call men like that assholes and I call women like that bitches. I don't discriminate. To each their own, I'm not physically a wimp (at least in my younger days), but I prefer to compete intellectually rather than physically. Though I have been a winner in both fashions. Bullying has never been cool.

I have bullied guys, but only the ones that come all pretencious thinking stuff like "this girl is so flat, i probably can get her to bed tonight because she looks like a boy" and i do stuff like take a napkin, break it into small bits, then throw a bit of them into the guys hair, some into his beer and so on, and he laughs, then he starts getting annoyed, then he looks at me like "what the hell, respect me woman!" and i ask "what's wrong?" and then throw a small bit of napkin into his hair, and he acts as if it's nothing, but eventually his soul breaks and you can see his precious advantage slowly fading away, until he turns into a wimp

I do stuff like that only to the people who come all superior thinking they can have any women because they feel the girt is less than them, so i destroy them completely and make the actual person show up

Honest people are cool, i'm a bully for sure but i only bully people who bully others and i show them how it feels like lol, there's a reason i was always also called "monster" growing up, oh well

[NotAPretender]

Humans seem to be pretty good at reproducing under dire straights, i.e., war, disease, climate trouble.

I know several people who have no desire to have children. None of them are gender benders, or gay, or really any kind of 'other'.

Except for the fact that they don't want children.

I also know a few people who swore up, down, and sideways that they didn't want any kids. But then, in their thirties, something magically changed. And now they're family folk.

It's really hard to deny what you are, despite trying and trying.

yeah, I was in a relationship for 10 years with a woman that had a hysterectomy, so we couldn't have children. I always felt the nagging need to be a parent. We eventually ended our daily sexual wars and I moved to another city to escape.

Don't be angry, but I think of a woman actually bullying a man with a bit of a laugh though I know it happens quite often. I had one short term relationship with a lady who said as I was headed out the door that she would kick my ass if I walked out. I walked out, without one eye turned backwards of course, and never looked back. She was too crazy for me and that took some doing.

But he was bullying you first, Malisa ... I don't blame you at all.

[Malisa]

Guys are intimidated by women, not in a physical sense so much, but they tend to look to themselves and worry that they don't measure up ... (not where it counts, of course) but in terms of social status. Women seek 'resources', and if men don't have all they feel that they need, they will be intimidated ... it is a biological instinct. I've read that the most 'comfortable' men are the married ones which are why women fall for them ... it's a weird dynamic and I'm not sure why things work that way. Some have suggested it is about confidence...i.e. strength, competence, control which in turn 'projects' fitness. But then perhaps that is why many marriages end in failure, projection isn't of necessity reality.

What is incel?

I don't need money from any guy, i have all i need, nice car and apartment and i earn more than most friends i have, it's hard to figure out who to date in that way because most feel "lesser" and can't figure out how to say for example, 'i can invite you to Cancun!" because i can spend more out there than they can. Somehow that's bad for the guys, they lose their tactic lol

So it ends up being either nice guys that are about living and experiences, even if we go on bus for a day to reach the beach, or older guys that already know it's ridiculous to attempt to buy me and instead are honest about what they want. I rather go walk 1000 kilometers with a guy that sells shoes on a corner and get to the beach and have a fantastic weekend, than go with a guy with a car he's still paying or his dad gave as a hand down car. I have 2 cars, i don't need a pretentious kid trying to show off his hand me down dad car LMAO, it feels ridiculous and dumb because i know he could not afford it on his own. The guy selling shoes on a corner and wanting to go camping with 200 dollars and asking for rides is the real winner, all the time

Incels are those guys that can't talk to a girl and when they do, they expect them to immediately fall for them because they are "nice" to them, as if being nice immediately means the girl has to fall in love and drop her clothes and ask to be impregnated and become a sex slave somehow. And when it doesn't happen, they turn into a b*tch and is not worthy of the incel guy. stuff like that is what incel guys are made of

[NotAPretender]

that's cool ... you're not a superficial person ... the world surely needs more of that ...

[Malisa]

that's cool ... you're not a superficial person ... the world surely needs more of that ...

Lol, sorry, i think i went way offtopic lmao, i'll go out now and find someone to bully on the street :P

LMAO

j/k but i did went offtopic, this was about cancel culture, not wimps or incels lol, sorry :/\

[NotAPretender]

same thing ...

[Dreamtimer]

Do incels want to cancel anything? Do they want to cancel women?

Incel is derived from the words involuntary and celibate. There have been conversations here about it.

Contrapoints, which can be found on you tube, has a video about incels which is both entertaining (for some) and informative (for all).

She (formerly known as he) loves to dress as characters and is super insightful.

[Octopus Garden]

I saw some activism (protest signs and meetings happening) against Foxconn a couple years ago. I'm trying to recall where we were.

You're most likely right, Chris.

And gobs of Americans will fight that thinking tooth and nail, imo. So it'll be another rude awakening I imagine.

But there are certainly many people who see the writing on the wall. I wonder what they plan?

Planned. Covid?

[Dreamtimer]

Here's one take on cancel culture. It seems the term is being used in many ways.

I recall the original Limbaugh-incited cancel culture which was to basically cancel liberals. Ralph Reed and the Christian Coalition had, as one of their stated goals, to turn the words 'progressive' and 'liberal' into derogatory terms. That was both a stated goal and a manifested one. Ralph Reed's brother has crowed with pride over their success in 'cancelling' liberals.

It's also been the ultimate blame game.

Boycotts are another, very old method of cancelling.

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mHYvdNh7Bk8

[Wind]

Except for the fact that they don't want children.

The last thing I would want to do is to bring a child to this world, but that's just my take on it. No one should take that as an offense, we all make our choices. My brother has continued our family line and kudos to him for that. All a man (like me) really needs is a dog, but sometimes a woman might be good too as a companion. Not bitches though unless they're dogs, I've had enough of them. Ladies, they can be fine. However it seems that I'll be staying single for a good while now and I definitely am not an incel. Sure the loneliness sometimes hits you because I think as social creatures even the most introverted of us do at times desire some closeness with others. Yet... "Feeling alone in a relationship is the worst feeling of all." Best not to settle for shitty relationships, weak people do that because they're afraid of being with themselves and their thoughts.

[NotAPretender]

yeah, I agree ... what is important though Wind is that we make good decisions with an air of openness. that's rich coming from me ...

[Wind]

She was too crazy for me and that took some doing.

"You merely adopted the crazy, she was born in it, molded by it. She didn't see sanity until she was already a woman, by then it was nothing to her."

[Dreamtimer]

The thread has been cleaned up and offending posts removed.

And now

[giovonni]

That's the problem with being a moderator ...
It's difficult to have it both ways.

My question; why do we need all these
moderators for this tiny forum?