For some reason that Carpo video became unavailable, my home youtube on tv has been very weird lately...it won't play videos at night sometimes. I've heard of the same problems with people over on PA?
I'm not good enough, yeah, I know that feeling intimately, it never really goes away once it has been implanted. If you remember my half-siblings book titled 'Enough' does deal exactly with that issue. It's an issue that parents doing 'good enough for me' parenting invariably saddle their children with. It's so essential to have a good understanding of child psychology to even have a chance of working around one's own childhood baggage.