I do remember TOT before you came. There was a camaraderie and a lightness and fun...as well as trust. There was a gentleness of response to people who thought differently than the prevailing view...a seeking to understand and really listen to each other without malice or insult...a sharing of opinions without judgment. At least until the the influx of refuges from PA appeared, followed by the blue chicken cult...which was sorely mishandled, imo. But trust now? No. Not for me.