I'll let others be the judge of that. I'm still learning new things every day, and it's not because I'm looking for them, but because they simply happen to cross my path. And some of that is stuff that I rather wish I had never had to hear of.
I've never been into any of those practices, so I wouldn't know.
Well, I do smoke, but of all the women I've been with — and there weren't all that many, to be honest — there was only one who still wanted to cuddle after making love, which is what I myself also prefer. The others would smoke their cigarette — if they did smoke — and/or head for the toilet or the shower right away.
In fact, I would even go so far as to say that the one woman I've just mentioned was the only one who actually made love to me. For the other women, it was just sex. And on that bombshell, out the window goes the stereotype that it's us guys who would be driven by lust, and that all women are hopeless romantics.
Likewise on account of fidelity, it is usually claimed that men are inherently unfaithful while women would be loyal. My experience so far has always been the exact opposite of that. Or to use the words as I've recently expounded them in the mod room, my back has so many daggers sticking out of it already that people start mistaking me for a porcupine.
But then again, that was all a long time ago. Like I said, I'm an
incel. Last time I got laid there were still dinosaurs running around outside. <sour grin>