Well since you've yet to address this question allow me to reiterate.
Just because you subscribe to many outdated modes of backward thinking like this....does not mean it's true.
Time to step up to the NEW PARADIGM!
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As a species we have evolved. Our DNA has evolved. Our understand of what is true as to the this statement you've made is the very evolution of humanity itself. The grand experiment if that suits you. Whatever you choose to call it that kind of thinking is not only outdated....it's most assuredly not true.
The VAST MAJORITY of people starting a family consider it a spiritual path. That life force of the universe you keep spouting about that seems to be elusive to those you have said may be deemed unworthy (in your own words) is within the miracle birth of your own child. And it's a powerful thing. A man who sees his child take its first breath will be driven to uncontrollable tears of joy.
Many parents find that bringing up children furthers their spiritual development. Seen in the right way, parenthood can itself be a spiritual path, bringing a heightened sense of love, wonder and appreciation.
Part of the reason why bringing up children can be a spiritual experience is because children are such strongly spiritual beings themselves. They naturally have many of the qualities which, as adults, we try to cultivate through spiritual development. They can be your teacher!
children are naturally mindful. They always live fully in the present, and the world is always a fantastically real and interesting place to them. Babies and young children are actually more conscious and more vividly aware of their external world and internal life than adults are. They have an ‘infinite capacity for wonder’ which we adults only experience at our highest moments!
Just because you are not interested it family for the sake of a sexually inspired kundalini for the purpose of enlightenment and what did you say? Better psychic abilities? It does not make it true for the vast majority of families which find being a family is indeed spiritual and provides the most important ingredient to that very same spiritual path....that would be UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
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Now: As for psychic abilities and Spirituality: You stated that having a kundalini develops Psychic abilities...you said it also as inclusive to enlightenment and thus a spiritual path.
Psychic abilities do not make for spirituality.
I personally wish I did not have such leanings. I never wanted to see the death of my husband at the age of 8 only for it to happen exactly as I saw it. I did not not want to see my son's funeral a year before. It's the kind of thing you don't want to see. It's in fact the worst thing I've ever experienced! I was born this way. I don't consider it one bit spiritual! It just is.
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First of all....the dark have psychic abilities
If you have heard of the lower regions of the underworld, you may discover that they have some “supernatural” powers as well. Ghosts, spirits and poltergeists-like beings exercises the same psychic abilities.
Yet, they do not radiate a spiritual presence at all!
Satanist Aleister Crowley was a living proof of someone who has attained psychic abilities for wicked purposes. The self-proclaimed 21st century occultist’s practices included sex magic, invoking spirits, abducting and raping children, and taking opium, heroin, and cocaine.
Following one of Crowley’s (Frater Perdurabo) psychic workings for human sacrifice, he stated:
“A male child of perfect innocence and high intelligence is the most satisfactory and suitable victim.”
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All earthly beings have psychic abilities. Animals are Psychic. Plants are Psychic.
One of the greatest reason why psychic is not spiritual is that there are many psychic people who do not know who they are, why they are here, and where they are going.
You would think all the mediums and astral travelers would find reliable insight to wisdom. But there appears to be more emphasis in the techniques and the powers than in understanding life.
If we were to compare two students, one who practices psychic powers for 30 years and the other who studies spirituality for 30 years, who will gain wisdom? Who will be more closer to enlightenment? Who will have more self-mastery?
The Thirst for Psychic Powers
Why would anyone wish to attain psychic powers? There are many motivations for attaining them.
Some wishes to heal others, help others, seek to understand unknown phenomena, discover something new and share experiences with the world. But these motivations are not a thirst and are quickly moved on. Those specifically seeking out psychic abilities often have different motives and sometimes they are mixed.
In general, people want to develop psychic powers of any kind is due to them being spiritually ignorant.
The media has portrayed psychic abilities as something cool. some of these people are truly convinced that they are a superhero whose mission in life is to save the world from some impending doom. Perhaps they believe themselves to be a prophet. So they want to acquire the greatest power of all.
Rather, the whole mission is in accumulating power and not in living a spiritual life. They may tell themselves that it’s just a way of expressing their spirituality but their behaviors give away their true purpose, if they realise it themselves.
The intent on helping people is a noble purpose, but the method in achieving that is not found in gaining psychic powers. Often the superhero turns into a powerless villain fairly shortly.
While the powerless individual is stuck in the past, the superhero is creating his own ego. He/she is playing make-belief on a grand scale.
They attribute psychic experiences with spiritual significance. Often they are just deluded about their own importance and their abilities. They may believe themselves to be more spiritual, smarter and better than others. While they have sentimental expression for psychic activities, any true spiritual lessons with a goal of enlightenment, common sense and wisdom escapes their grasp.
Psychic does not equal Spiritual and/or enlightenment.
What is the danger of psychic powers?
It distracts one from their spiritual path. It stops them from developing their own consciousness and spiritual growth.
But the seeker may look at this and think to himself/herself: “What could possibly be so dangerous?” or “I feel fine and many people are doing it…so it’s okay.” Unfortunately, this is exactly the behavior of those who don’t know any better.
1) It’s a waste of time. It is also not guaranteed for you to develop it in one lifetime because certain powers, like walking on waters, requires you to have worked on it in past lifetimes.
2) It exaggerates your weaknesses. Everyone has strengths and weaknesses.
Power developed immaturely will increase whatever tendencies one may have whether it be lust, anger, fear, or impulsiveness.
So if you have a slight anxiety, imagine having anxiety 100x. If you have a slight tendency for anger, then psychic powers will increase the chance for you to use it to destroy others. Then suppose you desire to attract someone, it’s easier to be tempted to use those powers for your own ends.
But the more dangerous part isn’t in having power but in getting disappointed when it didn’t work. So it is the same for the people who became prideful of astral traveling only to be afraid of the “shadow people” they meet or opening the third eye and then seeing the horrors of their own imaginations. Everyone thinks they are the exception.
But I assure you that when the ego gets a hold of some form of power, the power will be too much for them.
3) You will abuse it. The saying that absolute power corrupts absolutely is true in this case.
Mankind are not good with handling power very well throughout history. After all, the majority are not in control of their mind and body to any great extent.
Since the ego is limited, it is not aware of the right way to use psychic powers.
What if performing a healing or reading on someone influences them to make worst decisions? What if psychic use leads to the psychiatric hospital? And what if you accidentally released destructive power on someone, causing harm to all families involved?
Then it will lead to violating the freedom of others.
Surely those who seek after psychic powers will say, “But I need it!”
Those are the ones who will likely abuse it......... for a NEED is a form of desperation and desperation derives from weakness.